How To Master Online Ad Posting; S2 f l! Q. E
From Jeff Cohen,
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You can be the catch of the century, but if your online ad posting is poorly written, no one will contact you. Follow these steps to write an eye-catching, date-grabbing profile.( E/ h1 O" e" _0 u$ E
Difficulty: Easy! f, Y' \5 e( _3 s4 g
1 x0 L5 M1 H5 L: _( t; R% rTime Required: 30 minutes/ Y' ?% F1 c2 y& y
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Here"s How:- s$ \5 B4 E+ y$ K0 T# e4 q
1. Be honest about your age.7 j( J( ^& C3 x( C8 V
List your actual age; there"s no need to be defensive or dishonest.
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9 W( _3 d4 ?! f5 u7 }2. Use a realistic photograph.
9 v0 ?5 O2 x/ ]; ^Submit a quality, current photograph of yourself, but nothing that wildly misrepresents your actual appearance.
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3. Describe yourself accurately.+ \# K( ]. }2 `' f. ~
Answer questions honestly about your height, weight, race, religion, etc. Be accurate, not deceptive. Accurate: "I"m six feet, 180 pounds, with short brown hair and glasses." Deceptive: "I"m an intellectual Adonis."! k# `" d2 c# X4 w* S9 h
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+ Z; Y! c! X6 L. G4. Come across optimistic.
& d" S0 C& }; O. i: W3 M( j \' y# LWrite in an upbeat style. Similarly, don"t apologize for posting. Be positive and assertive.! Q% r `; u2 d7 Z% J- B8 ~
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5. Be brief and clear.
" d1 _6 c" u; w3 g' A' e, WFormat your posting so it"s easy to read. In other words, make your sentences and paragraphs brief. Also, don"t stuff your postings with words; that"s a turn off. Make sure you leave plenty of white space.
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6. Avoid spelling mistakes.
3 y1 G c1 V- E3 x+ PSpell-check your posting.
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7 z0 {2 { R* R/ I/ x" rBe clear about why you"re posting. If the person reading your requirements doesn"t fit them, they shouldn"t waste their time reading further.7 T/ N# O) [ z7 x
$ V% C6 |- E9 X Y. ?/ ?& }- {Explain what makes you who you are. Use adjectives and add detail, i.e., "I"m a playful 32 year old architect who likes to relax by reading mystery novels."# L% c$ Z/ s$ c" ~6 v _# ?; U
8 z1 I; H1 S# `5 i5 bShare what you like best in a partner. Don"t be negative or cruel. Instead, say what you want, i.e., "A guy who knows the difference between Monet and Manet, yet can also clean-and-press a 150 pound barbell."* ~6 T% ~/ @& G( o& A/ i* z- v& b
* B, P" v t' YWhen you respond to others" posts, show them that you actually read what they wrote, and aren"t just turned on by their picture or physical description.) Q `, j) H) `( @* B+ {
3 Y$ I- N* J" P) J/ q4 @( E" {7 o2 }What You Need:
" l1 t; P5 S5 v( ~& rComputer with Internet access+ O, _4 h8 b4 A5 g
Subscription to an online dating website
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