How To Master Online Ad Posting, z$ x) o. Y! Z1 e% A" r
From Jeff Cohen,9 }2 H* `# D4 i% ~8 j/ e, ^
Your Guide to Dating." d( D8 r, ], ^+ K a8 V; U
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: J& a4 {+ W1 l! N! a6 RYou can be the catch of the century, but if your online ad posting is poorly written, no one will contact you. Follow these steps to write an eye-catching, date-grabbing profile.* o/ V8 u }. ^: B1 N
Difficulty: Easy
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& D5 Q, l& h5 T' M* i* sTime Required: 30 minutes/ r% @# q9 V q1 l0 J. M+ c4 B5 m
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1. Be honest about your age.4 ^3 |7 Y! @) _/ M8 `0 D9 ?% g
List your actual age; there"s no need to be defensive or dishonest.* @( ?0 H' a( L+ t
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Submit a quality, current photograph of yourself, but nothing that wildly misrepresents your actual appearance.
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3. Describe yourself accurately.( y1 E1 X1 _& \' V0 P3 Z/ |
Answer questions honestly about your height, weight, race, religion, etc. Be accurate, not deceptive. Accurate: "I"m six feet, 180 pounds, with short brown hair and glasses." Deceptive: "I"m an intellectual Adonis."
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4. Come across optimistic.
1 p$ A6 d4 Q4 R7 c( U) [Write in an upbeat style. Similarly, don"t apologize for posting. Be positive and assertive.% O4 h3 s" K4 G, q2 N
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5. Be brief and clear.; D( T& Q8 X2 a; b) K, X' B9 k
Format your posting so it"s easy to read. In other words, make your sentences and paragraphs brief. Also, don"t stuff your postings with words; that"s a turn off. Make sure you leave plenty of white space.
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6. Avoid spelling mistakes.
& m- [7 ]8 _6 M8 @! I# SSpell-check your posting.
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Tips: I: M6 D$ _: u) T5 j& x
Be clear about why you"re posting. If the person reading your requirements doesn"t fit them, they shouldn"t waste their time reading further.# p8 W6 x% L+ B6 q
, w+ R9 O6 Z# A4 K NExplain what makes you who you are. Use adjectives and add detail, i.e., "I"m a playful 32 year old architect who likes to relax by reading mystery novels."
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Share what you like best in a partner. Don"t be negative or cruel. Instead, say what you want, i.e., "A guy who knows the difference between Monet and Manet, yet can also clean-and-press a 150 pound barbell."2 t& Q+ D+ k8 `9 ~& x
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When you respond to others" posts, show them that you actually read what they wrote, and aren"t just turned on by their picture or physical description.
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9 a; t9 ]* k7 G1 E# WWhat You Need:/ f/ C# S+ d! I, r0 ^6 u4 a J
Computer with Internet access
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